…and for that matter so does the e.e.oc. i heard back from the e.e.oc. and they found no cause for further action against my former employer. they stated that although what happened to me was unfair, it was not illegal. that does not make sense to me but at this time, i don’t really want to pursue any further legal action (although i have the right). i just want to look foward. although, who knows? I may change me mind…
yesterday while i was out having breakfast with ‘S’ my father-in-law calls the house looking for my husband. according to the husband, the conversation went something like this:
fil: (screaming) where have you been? and come to the house – now
husband: i can’t just drop everything, what going on?
fil: your sister and brother are in town and we’ve been worred sick looking for you. we called your job and your cell and we couldn’t find you. (really? worried to death, huh? yet you call him at the house now?)
husband: i have told you over and over to call the house if you can’t reach me otherwise.
fil: you don’t want to come because of your sister, is that it? (i guess because i was pissed off at his sister for not coming to Daniella’s funeral…which by the way her reason for not coming is not having enough notice, BECAUSE YOU KNOW, WE ALL KNOW WHEN WE ARE GOING TO DIE.)
husband: you all have to learn to call the house when you need me.
the whole conversation was basically a screaming match. let me tell you this: i am a big crybaby and i am always screaming and crying…my husband not so much. so for him to have lost it, HE WAS PISSED OFF. my fil is such an asshole. what am i going to do if they call, melt them on the other end? idiots. so they get pissed off that he does not go to the house to hang out with his family – that’s a problem. but when it was Daniella’s funeral the fil had to be talked into going and the sister in law does not show. but father in law does not bitch at the sister for that – OH NO! i can’t stand that twisted family of his.
at least he is finally waking up to their bullshit…he’s finally realizing what i have known all along: they expect far more of him than they are willing to provide him.