Aside from the grief of losing a much loved baby, some of us are saddened to realize that we grieve alone. You suffer that your baby is forgotten. You wonder, how is it possible that your greatest pain and loss seems to be nothing but a ‘blip’ on the radar in the lives of others.
And then someone remembers the child conveniently forgotten by others. And you are reminded that others grieve with you and remember that your baby is very special and very loved.
Monica, I thank you and your closest for remembering my sweet girl Emi, even as you all remembered your beloved Jack. I can die knowing that someone cared for her along with me and that does a lot for a broken heart.